Got Igbliss? They say ignorance is bliss, but we chide that remark because nobody seeks to be ignorant.  Of course, it is simply bestowed upon some, but not because they sought it out.  And because they aren’t even aware – they don’t know what they don’t know – bliss could be said to be the … More Igbliss


Often when we step off the non-thinking train that’s been running since… …we started in a particular career that we never left …we had kids and then spent 18yrs giving them wings …we began a relationship or marriage that got caught up in the swirl of the items above …we developed financial security that disappeared … More Re-Evolution


The late Alvin Toffler, futurist and author of FutureShock, The Third Wave, and Powershift said: “You’ve got to think about big things while you’re doing small things, so that all the small things go in the right direction.” Throughout our day, we are making lots of little choices that we can mostly fall unconscious to. … More Directionality

The Difference between Men and Women in Midlife

I admit that sometimes my blog topics don’t come to me right away, and this morning I was calling on help from the almighty internet. I searched and searched for different topics and then different bloggers, anything to give me a spark of inspiration. Suddenly I saw it. I saw the difference between men in midlife … More The Difference between Men and Women in Midlife

Your Yoda

“If you light a lamp for someone it will also brighten your own path.” —Buddhist Proverb At what age does the idea of solid, supportive mentoring first catch us? As a career/executive coach and spiritual counselor for over 30 years, I watch as so many young folks go out into life just shooting from the … More Your Yoda

Why You Should Forget Everything You Think You Know About The Midlife Crisis

A middle aged man leaves work one day and decides to buy his dream car on his way home. This is the classic story everyone thinks of when they hear the term “midlife crisis”. But what if I was to tell you that midlife crises aren’t even real? I already feel the skepticism from some … More Why You Should Forget Everything You Think You Know About The Midlife Crisis