3 Steps Toward Chaotic Balance


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“Madness is somewhere inbetween chaos and having a dream.”

-R.M. Drake

The urge inside is to take on new things, play in bigger ways, and set free what’s destined for us to express. It invites chaos.

The urge inside is also to find security and predictability and order.  It invites balance.

It’s all about evening out the urges. The tendency is to mitigate the first, and feed the second. Yet, without an invitation to chaos, we stay where we are.

In my own growth toward both opening up to allow The Back Forty message to express through me as well as the friction of frustration in the learning new ways and means to deliver it, I can pretty much claim a resident element of chaos inhabiting my office and life!

First, there’s the giving of freedom to myself to just let the creativity flow.  Then, there’s the jumping into the deep end of new methods and technologies and gadgets for sharing that creative flow.  And it’s ALL NEW, mostly untested, and definitely not a reflection of who I’ve been in the past but, rather, a glimpse of who I’m becoming.

Yet, even while in the midst of that chaos, I find myself seeking ways to tame the new energies and desires by structuring my life in ways to best incorporate them.  Better scheduling, more effective and efficient communication, and even – yes, and I’m realizing as crucial – more downtime, fun and play.

All that – along with the rather oxymoronic phrase “chaotic balance” – is hard to see coming together sometimes.

How does the idea of chaotic balance land for you?

In The Back Forty, we say “you have yet to do what you came here to do.”  In order to do that, we need to face chaos…and even invite it.  Contrary to what the first half of life – and the bumps and bruises that came with it – may have conditioned us to believe about keeping life safe and predictable, we need to make room for and incorporate the chaos…in as orderly a way as we can.

Here are a few ideas for incorporating Chaotic Balance:

1. Free the Artist!

If you’re up to something big, creating something beyond what you’ve been or done before, you are releasing an artist from within you.  That includes starting a new business, writing a book, embarking on a new career, jumping into dating or a new relationship, or even re-inventing the relationship you’re in!  It’s anything new and creative that you’re taking on.

A couple great books to support Back Forty Fliers in distinguishing and freeing that inner artist are The Artist’s Way and The War of Art, both which press you beyond the resistance to staying in the comfort zone of the known.

Take steps to express in whatever your area of artistic and creative growth is.  Go take a class, hire a coach, join an action or support group, or in any other way set aside specific time to engage in that wild dream or crazy idea.

2. Expect Discombobulation

Know that the new ideas, the beta-test technologies, the expanded perspectives and the stretch of your capacities to incorporate these new endeavors – mentally, physically, emotionally, and even spiritually – WILL discombobulate you and you’re life, if you’re really playing big.

Expect it.  The discombobulation is your friend.

3. Wrangle the Wild Stallions Into Pens

Establish structures, time commitments, and new ways of running and managing your life to incorporate the wild new frontiers.

Balance your need for routine and order with carefully and strategically organized elements that allow those ideas to take root.  Keep or even build new ways to include it ALL.  Meditation, time-blocking and action buddies are just a few methods to bring the chaos you want into the balance you need.

Every now and then, I simply compile too many quotes that demonstrate what I could only attempt to say in my own words.  This is one of those days.

I leave you with these quotes to support and empower your own finding of Chaotic Balance.

“Our real discoveries come from chaos, from going to the place that looks wrong and stupid and foolish.”

-Chuck Palahniuk

“The worst thing you could do is tame the chaos in you. It’s like being told not to feel when you’re thrown in the fire.”

-R.M. Drake

“Chaos is inherent in all compounded things. Strive on with diligence.”

-Buddha

“In all chaos there is a cosmos, in all disorder a secret order.”

-Carl Jung

“You need chaos in your soul to give birth to a dancing star.”

-Friedrich Nietzsche

“All great changes are preceded by chaos.”

-Deepak Chopra

“Chaos often breeds life, when order breeds habit.”

-Henry Adams

“Introduce a little anarchy, upset the established order and everything becomes…chaos”

-The Joker

“In the midst of movement and chaos, keep stillness inside of you.”

-Deepak Chopra

“Chaos was the law of nature; Order was the dream of man.”

-Henry Adams

“Chaos is a friend of mine.”

-Bob Dylan

“Fall in love or fall in hate. Get inspired or be depressed. Ace a test or flunk a class. Make babies or make art. Speak the truth or lie and cheat. Dance on tables or sit in the corner. Life is Divine Chaos. Embrace it. Forgive yourself. Breath. And enjoy the ride.”

-Unknown

“Balance is the ability to be happy in the midst of the most chaotic…circumstance.”

-Friederick Lenz


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